Relationship type: Six Harmony
The Rat and Ox form a Six Harmony (liu he), often called "secret friends". Each quietly supplies what the other lacks, making this a deeply supportive match.
Elements: Water and Earth
Earth (Ox) controls Water (Rat) in the five-element cycle, which can feel like pressure unless roles are balanced.
Rat and Ox in love
The Rat is attentive and quick to notice what a partner needs, while the Ox commits slowly but stays loyal for the long haul. This works best when the Rat gets a partner who appreciates their wit and planning and the Ox gets stability, routine and honesty.
Watch-outs
- The Rat's weak spot is worrying over money and details.
- The Ox's weak spot is stubborn silence when upset.
- Astrology is for fun; respect and communication matter most.
Birth years
Rat: 1936, 1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008, 2020.
Ox: 1937, 1949, 1961, 1973, 1985, 1997, 2009, 2021.
Years begin at Lunar New Year, between late January and mid-February.